I am heading to Miami tomorrow to spend New Year's Eve with Nora, Julio, Ann, and Tara, among many others. I'm really excited to spend the next few days with friends. My friends are truly my family in many ways. And I'm extremely thankful for all the wonderful friends that I have in my life!
End of the year holidays are not an easy time of the year for me. I spent my childhood and many adult years having a love-hate relationship with the holidays. I loved them growing up because I loved the idea of tradition and a family celebrating together. I loved the idea of everyone coming together to spend time with each other--playing games, catching up over coffee, decorating the tree, eating big fancy meals, and laughing over old stories. I always thought it should be the one time during the year where quality time was at its height. However, that was not always the case with my family. While I have many fond memories of various holidays over the years, I also have many memories of fighting, slamming doors, yelling, screaming, leaving, returning, and crying. The days or hours that my family spent together were never quite what I had hoped for or wanted (as a child or an adult). But it was still time with my family, so I cherished it despite all the crumbling, shattered pieces that returned each year. Eventually I learned how to appreciate our time together over holidays for what it was, instead of what it wasn't.
Now, my perspective has shifted yet again. After finally learning how to accept and cherish my family for what it was, it was most recently, literally, ripped apart by my parents' divorce. I spent last Thanksgiving and Christmas with my mom and sister. I spent this Thanksgiving with my mom and sister, and Christmas with my dad in Florida. Both last year and this year, I would have rather just skipped November and December altogether. I'd be perfectly content jumping from October 31st, a wonderful holiday, to January 1st, another wonderful day. Unfortunately, I can't do that. So, next year I'll let you know what differences I've decided to make to help me get through the holiday season a little more smoothly. Let me know if you have any suggestions. I'm always willing to listen to thoughtful advice.
Despite my somewhat negative holiday attitude, I do have some superb (well, in my opinion) pictures to share, so I hope you all enjoy them. (Beware, there are A LOT of pictures!!!)
I am looking forward to an awesome time in Miami and a fun ending to 2009.
Happy New Year, and I'll see you back here in 2010!!
Christmas Eve in Naples--ah, Campiello--my favorite restaurant in Naples!!!

It's snowing in Naples!! Who knew that was possible? It was beautiful, 70, and snowing. What a great Christmas Eve!


I love Christmas lights. It reminds me of the Chevy Chase Christmas Vacation movie. I was so excited when dad said we were going to drive through this neighborhood where everyone decorates their houses!! It was AWESOME.
Santa: "I'm on a BOAT! I'm on a BOAT!"
Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall...Humpty Dumpty had a great fall...here he is...they put him back together!
Can you see the steam emanating from my sister's beautifully designed mug?
In Key West--the Hemingway House...
And, one of the bathrooms inside the Hemingway House--check out that rockin' chandelier!

The original wrap-around porch...

My art shot...

And what would be a picture collection on my blog without a cloud picture?
A cloudy, but somewhat picturesque, sunset out on the water...
Coconuts!



We flew from Marco Island to Key West on this plane. It's the smallest plane I've flown on in my life! It seats 6 people, including the pilot. I thought I was going to get sick, but it was a smooooooth ride.
When we landed at Marco Island airport, we couldn't leave because of this accident. I decided to be the on-site photographer. :)







